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Whether you’ve been with your significant other for 25 years or this is a first date, when date night comes, you need to dress to impress. This doesn’t mean you have to go get your best suit dry cleaned, but keep it fresh. Nothing turns someone on more than having a freshly shaven man at her door. Whether you rock the full length beard, the go-tee, or the baby face, having everything, and yes, I do mean “everything” cleanly shaved/trimmed, will make all the difference.

Let’s start at the basics, the shower. Come on now, lather up boys, it’s time to get soapy. If it’s date night for a long term relationship, chances are, you’re going to get lucky! So, let’s make sure we trim and shave all those hairs. She might like your bearded hairy face because it makes you look rugged and dangerous, but she doesn’t like the unnecessary matte of curls and stringy-ness you have going on down below; no one does.  Take care of that. Chances are, if you’ve been with your significant other for a while now, you know exactly how they like your “manliness” kempt, and unruly doesn’t make the cut. Shape it, shave it, trim it; just do what you know needs to get done. You’ll be feverishly rewarded in the end for it. You can thank me later.

Now, as you all know, women take forever to get ready. This is because come date night, we want to look our best. We want every person in the room to notice how hot your lady is. This means, that when you do see her, tell her right away how beautiful and sexy she looks. Trust me; the most minute comments can make a world of difference. So, appreciate that she took extra time to put on her makeup, or that she really wowed you in that killer dress.

Since she’s going to go all out for date night and look her best, you need to match her. If you’re doing a casual date, wear nice jeans, NOT ripped and dirty jeans, and a shirt. Whether it’s a casual polo, a very nice dark grey tee, or a collared button down, it’s all based on you and your personal style and what you feel comfortable in. And, if you’re ever unsure of what to wear, or what the event calls for, you can bet your ass you’re always going to be safe wearing dark, nice fitted jeans, and a black top. This way, you can pull of casual with a hint of style, or a more formal event where you don’t risk over dressing by being “that guy;” you know the one that shows up in a suit and tie when everyone else is wearing jeans. Black can be sexy, casual, formal, and everything in between.

Let’s clarify; yes be comfortable, be free, be yourself; this does not mean show up in your skivvies or your old favorite gym shirt. It doesn’t matter how casual the date is, don’t wear the gym tee. Women do not like that. You need to make it look like you tried a little bit.  This also rules out wearing sweat pants. Even if it Is an at home dinner date, you still need to put on jeans.

Cologne is a must! There is nothing sexier than a man that has nice scented cologne on when you lean in to kiss his neck. And believe me; you want her to like what she smells.  By the time she has leaned in, even if to just kiss you on the cheek, your cologne needs to present itself to her. Now, I’m not talking leap off your body and make her run the other direction strong, but soft, settle, and oh, so sexy. It’s ok, you can admit it, guys want and fish for compliments just as much as women do, and wearing the right cologne is a perfect way to get not only a compliment, but some much needed neck action and foreplay too.

I mean come on! These are so sexy I want to jump them myself and have some “fun,” so obviously, wearing these outfits not only make it so you’re dressed appropriately for date night, but oh my god, hello! They are so undeniably sexy that your girl is going to be crawling across the table, wrecking dinner, and wanting to do it right there on the table! Wowza!

Tags: date night, dress